The following is a description of Jet's basic stance toward life, the way others see him, the way Jet Li comes across, the face he shows to the world. In the page about motivation you will read about the inner Jet Li - his real motivation, which describes the kind of person he is at heart and where his true priorities lie. Study this page and the next one and compare them - there may be significant differences between the two, in which case "the inner Jet Li" may not shine through and others may be in for so a few surprises once they get to know Jet a little better. This page describes the disguise Li wears, his role in life, while the page about motivation talks about the real person beneath the disguise.
Ferociously proud and somewhat vain, Jet Li likes to be impressive and to be considered special and unique. He is not timid, meek, or self-effacing, and is rarely content with staying in the background or in a subordinate position. He is a natural leader, and does not take orders from others very well. Li must have something of his own, something creative - be it a business, a project, a home or whatever - that he can develop and manage according to his own will and vision. Whatever Jet does, he does it in a unique, dramatic, individual way. He likes to put his own personal stamp on it.
Jet Li also has a very strong sense of dignity, self-respect, and personal honor and is deeply offended if someone treats him in a humiliating or dishonorable way. Li will rarely confront the offender - he is too proud to do so - but he will lose his affection and respect for them. Jet dislikes pettiness and hates to be snubbed or ignored.
Li admires others who are strong individuals like himself. When Jet Li befriends someone, Li is tremendously loyal, sincere, and willing to go to extraordinary lengths to make that person happy. He is very giving and generous, but his gifts are never anonymous - Jet expects recognition and appreciation for them. He also expects the intense loyalty that he offers to his dear ones to be reciprocated. However, Jet Li often has trouble developing relationships with people who are as strong as himself, for he does not really cooperate or share the leading role very easily. If he is not in the leading role, he aspires to be and will compete with the person who is.
Jet Li has great heart and courage, and people often look to him for strength, encouragement, and affirmation. Jet always puts his best face forward and rarely allows others to see him hurting, disheartened, or vulnerable. Jet Li also has a very strong need for love, admiration, appreciation, and praise, although he does not like others to realize just how important it is to him.
His outlook on life tends to be very personal and rather self-centered. His own self-expression, self-actualization and self-realization interest Jet more than anything else. Jet Li feels that if he does his best where he is, the rest of the world will take care of itself.
He is forceful and energetic and goes for what he wants quite aggressively. He is a doer and an achiever and has a positive "I can" attitude. He may run over people and stir up opposition and conflict because Jet Li tends to be very self-centered, or simply oblivious to the needs and intentions of others.
Jet Li is extremely sensitive to all of the incoming impressions and energies around him, and at times he can be overcome or dominated by more forceful personalities. Learning to establish clear boundaries is important for him, as Jet Li tends to become enmeshed emotionally and/or psychically with whomever he is with. He may have the chameleon's trait of seeming to become the people or person he is with the most.
Li strongly resents daily routine and is always ready and willing to challenge life. Responding quickly to people around him, Jet Li spontaneously connect with them and tends to become stimulated through them.
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